Is It Just Me, Or Are They Stupid?

22 03 2009

OK, so the universe is speaking to me and apparently I’m not listening. This is, of course giving the universe the benefit of the doubt and probably taking the blame for something not my fault. When was the last time the universe spoke to YOU in ENGLISH???

I was doing laundry one night. This is not earthshattering news by any means. What is earthshattering is that I decided to take my clothes off, add to the pile, and actually carry the load of clothes down the stairs instead of throwing over the banister to the downstairs tile floor. Here I am, a naked, middle-aged woman carring laundry down the stairs and I look up thinking “I wonder if anyone can see me through the sheer curtains?” I take another step and the clothes explode from my arms, all over the entryway and living room. I am on my butt, one leg under my butt, knees wide part. NOT a pretty site. I unwedge the leg that’s under me, close my knees, and tell myself to breathe and not pass out from pain just as my husband and daughter reach me.

“Sweety Girl, could you get Mommy a glass of water? Scott, could you get my pajamas?” I whisper through the slice of pain. They turn away and I pull myself down to the cold tile floor to lay. I know that I broke my leg, but I am trying to stay conscious so I won’t frighten my daughter. I get my water to drink then Scott helps me get my pajamas on. I hop one one foot, in white hot searing  pain, to the recliner just as the phone rings. My doctor friend that works at the prison in San Quentin wants to know what happened. OK, she’s also a psychic. I tell her and she talks to calm me and help keep me from going into shock. Then another friend calls (yep, also psychic) and she teaches me how to run the shock down my body and out through the bottom of my feet. I feel better.

When someone shows up to stay with our daughter, my hubby loads me on a furniture dolly with a couch cushion on top and rolls me out to the truck. Off to the emergency room (ER) we go…and the most riducuous evening I think I’ll ever have.

My hubby goes for a wheelchair, comes back to unload me, rolls me in. We check into the ER.  ”What happened?”

“ I fell down the stairs.”

“ How many stairs?”

“ Four or five.”

“Did you lose consciousness?”

“No, but only through sheer will as I didn’t want to scare my daughter.”

“Are you sure you didn’t lose consciousness?”

“Yes, I’m sure.”

I go to triage.  ”What happened?”

“ I fell down the stairs.”

“ How many stairs?”

“ Four or five.”

“Did you lose consciousness?”

“No, but only through sheer will as I didn’t want to scare my daughter.”

“Are you sure you didn’t lose consciousness?”

“Yes, I’m sure.”

“Do you have Insurance?

“Yes”

“Wow! You’re the third person today!  Are you allergic to any medications? “Yes” and I list.

“What medications are you currently taking?” I tell him. “Please check in at the window. They will take your information and we will call you when it’s your turn.”

At the window we are asked “Do you have insurance?”

“Yes”

“What happened?”

“ I fell down the stairs.”

“ How many stairs?”

“ Four or five.”

“Did you lose consciousness?”

“No, but only through sheer will as I didn’t want to scare my daughter.”

“Are you sure you didn’t lose consciousness?”

“Yes, I’m sure.”

I go to triage.  ”What happened?”

“ I fell down the stairs.”

“ How many stairs?”

“ Four or five.”

“Did you lose consciousness?”

“No, but only through sheer will as I didn’t want to scare my daughter.”

“Are you sure you didn’t lose consciousness?”

“Yes, I’m sure.”

“Do you have Insurance?

“Yes”

“Wow! You’re the third person today!  Are you allergic to any medications? “Yes” and I list.

“What medications are you currently taking?” I tell her. Then we go through all the information gathering and providing process. I have a broken leg and not really in the mood to be answering all these questions. Meanwhile I look around and there are a lot of people in that emergency room. I think I may be in for a long night! “Please have a seat and we’ll call you when it’s your turn.” I didn’t point out that I’m in a wheelchair and already sitting!”

There I sit in my pink pajamas in my wheelchair yelling at people to watch out before then run into my elevated leg that’s sticking straight out in front of me. They look down and say, “Yep. It’s broken alright. That must hurt.” Duh!

Scott goes up to the window to ask about pain medication, gets sent to triage. “She can have some ibuprofin” the nurse tells him. He holds his hand out. “We can’t give her anything! We haven’t seen her yet!” Well, technically they have. But he doesn’t feel like arguing so he goes out to the truck and returns with an industrial size bottle of ibuprofin. “Oh, God…could I please have a couple of those?” someone bs.egs when they see him giving me some tablets.  I tell him to offer some to the young woman two seats over as I’d been watching her. She is extremely grateful. In less than two minutes, Scott is dispensing ibuprofin all over that emergency room!

Three hours later my name is called. I’m transferred to a gurney. A nurse comes in and picks up the chart made by the lady at the ER window. The chart contains the triage notes. The nurse asks “Do you have insurance?”

“Yes”

“What happened?”

“ I fell down the stairs.”

“ How many stairs?”

“ Four or five.”

“Did you lose consciousness?”

“No, but only through sheer will as I didn’t want to scare my daughter.”

“Are you sure you didn’t lose consciousness?”

“Yes, I’m sure.”

“Are you in pain?”

“Yes, but I took some ibuprofin.”

“Let me get you some Vicodin.”

“But Vicodin makes me bitchy!”

“ Honey, I’ll write you a note!” She gives me a couple.  About 15 minutes later the Vicodin kicks in. Uh, oh…her we go…Three doctors come in. Two were interns and one happens to be one of the best bone doctors at the hospital. I don’t know if it was the Vicodin, the endless recitation of information, or what but I’d had enough by this time. “What happened?” “Can’t you just read the f__ing file?”

“ Yes, but we’d like to hear it from you.” All of a sudden I’m not feeling very well. I think I’m having a bad trip. Not a bad trip to the hospital, a bad trip on drugs!  I tell the doctors and they tell the nurse to get something I can’t remember, and couldn’t pronounce even if I could, STAT! I’m apparently having a bad reaction to the vicodin. I get an IV and a shot. OK, we start over again. “What happened?”

“Can’t you just read the file? I’m tired of repeating myself.”

“No, we need to hear it from you…” I recite my story and can do it from memory despite the new pain medication they’ve given me.

X-rays…OK, see this right here? That’s a spiral fracture. We usually don’t put a cast on for three days, but this is the worst kind of fracture. If we don’t cast you and protect your leg, it could break more.” I didn’t think having a cast put on could hurt so much, but I got even more pain medication and THEN I was taught how to use crutches. Naturally, I fell on my broken leg. It hurt like hell, but I no longer cared!

I’m finally home, get upstairs and go to bed.  

I awaken as my hubby and daughter leave for the day. I take the pain medication the hospital sent home, return to sleep and awaken again. I’ve got a migraine and I feel like I’m on a bad trip again. I look at the medication the hospital sent home. It’s Vicodin…

I call the number at the bottom of the discharge sheet the ER gave me. They tell me Vicodin is the only thing they can give me because of one of the medications I currently take. I tell them they gave me something else last night when I had a bad reaction to the Vicodin. They disagree, saying there wasn’t anything else I could take. I would have to choose between a migraine or broken leg pain.

Luckily, my San Quentin doctor friend called me when I got home. She got pretty mad when I told her my story and said “Bullshit!” She called in a prescrition for me saying “what’s the use of having a friend for a doctor if you couldn’t use and abuse her once in awhile?” Thank god for my psychic prison doctor! The health system could have killed me! OK, maybe they wouldn’t cost me my life, but they did cost me an industrial size bottle of ibuprofen!





Sometimes I Can’t Help But Wonder

22 03 2009

People ask me what I’m doing now that I’m retired. I tell them I’m perfecting the art of laziness. Somebody else already came up with the book and matching coffee mug, dammit!

I came up with a new term for farts….trunk tunes! Uh, oh…I feel a song coming on!

I’ve been putting worms on my own hook and fishing since I was four years old. Does that make me a master baiter?

If I watch the history channel more than 2 hours a day, does that mean I’ve turned into an old person? What if I see things that happened during my lifetime?

I’ve had people come and go in my life but I’m still here!

Did you know that calling someone judgmental is actually being judgmental?

Life is great in your 50s. You know who you are, how you got there, and you no longer care!

Why is it that the friends that tell you to stand up for yourself stop talking to you when you stand up to them?

Do you ever have thoughts that are just too deep to have alone? Sometimes you just have to have someone there to share them with, ya know?

I was saying to Cathi, my BBF, that I have lost my rhythm since I retired and needed to get it back, I feel lost. She agreed saying that I needed to connect with the outside world. I realized at that point that the outside world begins inside my own house. That’s a scarey thought!  [PS  In the US, BFF (Best Friends Forever) is popular. Cathi and I prefer BBF-Best Bitch forever. ]

I wrote a poem just now!

 DEEP THOUGHTS

I had a deep thought

And now I forgot.

THE END

The last time a doctor said “Now you will feel some slight discomfort” was during an infertility procedure. I asked him to please place his testicles in my hand. The amount of discomfort he would feel would be directly proportional to the amount of “discomfort” he was inflicting upon me. I thought it important that male doctors truly understand how “discomfort” feels to a woman….Now if only I could find the bastard that invented the mammogram…

Oral saline-Drink two 1.5 oz. bottles (and several glasses of water, of course) over a four hour period to induce agonizing butt vomiting prior to medical procedures involving the colon. Crap! If I’d known about that 20 years ago, I would have spent a lot less time feeling guilty about playing hookey. Half a teaspoon would have been good for an hour or so, don’t you think?

I LOVE storms! I was so excited about the upcoming storm that I really didn’t mind having to drink the oral saline. I mean, if I have to be up all night anyway, at least I’ve got an awesome storm to watch. Didn’t realize until I was into it that I couldn’t see the storm from the toilet!

I thought I’d punish the doctor by not shaving my legs or pits. It was the only thing I could think of doing before the procedure and I was feeling smug…until I realized he probably wouldn’t be taking his eyes off my rectum!

Shut up! I can’t hear the lightening! Get the hell out of my way! I can’t see the thunder! ….

I believe you must earn the right to be assassinated by the US government! ….

Wouldn’t the pilgrims be pissed if they saw how fast you could build a house now? Oh wait, it takes longer because you have to get all those building permits! ….

Overpopulation is kept in check by survival of the fittest, war, medical advances, and now suicide bombers.

When I was younger and lost weight, I lost breasts first, then waist and butt. Now that I’m older, I lose butt first, then breasts…not the waist, no never the waist! Does this blog make my waist look big?

I used to care, now I take medication for that!

Take Topamax–Learn what it’s really like to be lost for words!

I was at my very longest and best friend’s  (BBF)  house not long ago. She lives in another town. I met her right after I married my ex. She now lives in my ex-husband’s and my old house. (It was his house before we got married. He lost it after I left when he got hooked on drugs.) I always loved that house. (I’ve dreamed about that house for thirty years.) I was out on the deck recently and guess who drove by… Must have thought he saw a frickin’ ghost. “Check it out, dude! I finally got the house!”

Why does the doctor’s office ask for my insurance info when I call to make an appointmentt? Is that so the doctor can decide if he wants to make my migraines better or worse?

If I can’t hear the voices in my head anymore, do I need a hearing aid? Would that be for my inner ear?

 Does this blog make my butt look big?

 If you have a doctor’s appointment at 9:00 but they ask you to arrive 15 minutes early, why isn’t your appointment for 8:45?

If television remote controls have SAP for the english channels to be translated to spanish, why isn’t there EAP for the spanish channels to be translated into english?

How do you know if an elevator has reached its weight limit before the cables break?

How can I have a runny nose when all the snot is running down the back of my throat and my nostrils are all dried out?








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